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Lessons for Life

After 78 years of adventures with Jesus, I want to share the many biblical lessons God has taught me over the years. Many of these He taught while having me live in multiple cultures, which makes them applicable most anywhere.  And most of these lessons came out of problems, difficulties and failures, which makes them “battle tested” and trustworthy.

I have now put a number of these lessons into simple videos. They are useful for personal growth, for counseling, teaching and discipling.

They cover subjects such as the following, with more in the works. They are, of course, free.

If you find them useful,  please tell  others about them.

 

Spiritual Warfare

Using Heavenly Wisdom

The “How to” of Forgiveness

Dealing with Junk Stress

Leading Yourself Well

Happiness and Joy

Overcoming Depression

Quiet Time

Lifting Your Soul to God

Offering the Sacrifice of Thanksgiving

The “How to” of Biblical Meditation

Transforming Negatives into Positives

Child Raising

Confessing in Layers

Confessing Ahead

You can check them out at:

EdifyingServicesPublishing.com   or use this QR code to find them:

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Walking in Light

 From my worship journal.

“The LORD reigns, let the nations tremble….” Psalm 99:1a

Praise be to you, Lord Jesus, that I feel far from you today—an opportunity to walk by faith, to know that, in spite of my feelings, you are near and that I am with you–for you are faithful.

Praise you for the lack of feeling and the abundance of truth. I choose to live by truth, by faith today.

The Lord “sits enthroned between the cherubim, let the earth shake” (Ps. 99:1b). Yes, You, Yahweh, are the absolute ruler of the universe.

–You are the most High,

— the final Authority,

–the undisputed King.

No one can oppose your decisions for long.

–You will win in the end, for you are God:

–your power is infinite,

–your understanding is unbounded,

–your knowledge is limitless,

–and your wisdom is unfathomable.

No one can plan or attack or rebel without your knowing about it long before hand.

Your being such a powerful God, means we must tremble and quake before you.

We are tiny, powerless, ignorant, sinful and weak.

There is nothing we can do to prevent you from carrying out your plans for the universe.

You are sovereign: no matter what we or anyone else may do, you will bring your overall desires to pass in the end.

So we bow before you and agree to walk in the light of your truth today, that you may be honored and we protected.

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Lost but not Gone

Another adventure with Jesus.

Last week I lost my iPhone, which is an essential part of my work (and life!). That means not only that I lost my phone, but all my stored information: phone numbers, pictures, texts and messages.

Emotionally this could be equivalent to falling into a deep dark pit (communication cut off), or it could be launching off on an adventure with Jesus. And how does one do that? Simply by trusting, implemented by offering the sacrifice of thanksgiving, as it says in Psalm 50:21, and when we do that, we honor God and open the way for Him to show us the salvation of the Lord.

Well, I kind of hoped He would bring the phone back to me, but He had other plans, little gifts along the way.

–First I found that I could have all calls to my cell directed to my home phone. Great!

–Then I was able to get a used phone exactly  like my old one.

–Then my provider promised  to send out a new sim card right off.

–Then when I got the phone, I found that I could send and receive texts over wifi without the sim card.

–And most importantly, as I was setting up the phone, it prompted me to download all my data from the iCloud! So I didn’t lose all that after all!

But then another bump in the road. The supplier delayed sending the sim card, and after it was finally sent, the mail was very slow: projected arrival was over a week! Hmmm, another chance to offer the sacrifice of thanksgiving.

Finally today it arrived but when I tried to install the sim card, the directions didn’t make any sense. Called the provided and a person walked me through the long process, except, it would not allow me to send texts. After several tries, I was connected to apple help; the person there also struggled to resolve it, but after more than an hour got it to work! Success at last! Hopefully that is the end of the adventure.

This was actually not a big thing in life, but embracing this as an adventure protected me from much stress, wasted energy, unhappiness and anger, all of which would have resulted in outbursts at others. But Jesus offers us peace and joy in the midst of difficulty, big or small—if we only will trust in Him and receive that peace and joy (Romans 15:13).

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Another Adventure

More Adventures with Jesus

Then there’s the adventure of dealing with difficult people (not that we are such a one at times!). The world is full on unhappy, hurting people, those who in their pain strike out at others. It is very easy to see such people as enemies, to avoid them, or to give it back to them.

Jesus has a different perspective for us: “…love your enemies, do good to them.” (Luke 6:35). So when we run into prickly people, we are not to “prickle back,” not to reply in kind, but to do good to them.

The question is always, “How?” We, obviously we don’t let them “push our buttons,” but view them for what they are, poor, angry, hurting individuals. First is to pray and ask God for wisdom. Then either disengage (not entering an argument is doing good), or reply kindly, not denigrating the other, but saying positive things.

One time I got a call from a man I’d been working with. He was very angry and told me off in no uncertain terms, accusing me of things I hadn’t done. When he hung up on me, I was shaking from the vicious interaction. I took some moments to calm down. What I wanted to do was write him a nasty email and give to him what he’d given me. But I knew that’s not what God wanted, so I went to praying, thanking God for this difficult happening, asking Him for wisdom. He led me to forgive this man, to ask God to do good to him, to put him in God’s hands.

The next morning, I got an email from him, but didn’t open it, not wanting another bad experience at the beginning of the day. I should have opened it, for he wrote apologizing for his behavior and making a reasonable request to rectify the situation! Doing good can bring good; not always, but can.

It was an adventure with Jesus, a chance to trust him, to do what He commands when I sure didn’t want to—and He worked it out! I need to remember that when the next adventure comes, as I have not always responded so well!

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Another Adventure

Here’s another adventure: playing a part in snatching people out of the jaws of eternal death in Hell and pointing them to the way to living forever with Jesus.

Today was a” hohum day” for me with phone calls, vacuuming and some computer work. Then two construction workers came to look at a possible rental space.

As is my habit, near the end of our business I said, “You know I have two terminal diseases: A G E, and kidney failure, so I’m going to die pretty soon. But that’s ok because I know where I’m going.

I continued, “And you, too will die sometime.” They nodded. “So, when you die and get to the gate of heaven where the angel asks you, ‘Why should I let you in?’ what will you say?”

As often happens, they were taken aback: they had never thought about that. As they fumbled to give an answer one said, “I did my  best,” the other, “I was kind.” So I shared the gospel briefly and clearly, and gave them a 4 spiritual laws booklet. This led to an interesting conversation with these rough, tough guys. One told about his near-death experience many years ago, the other about his Catholic upbringing. They went away enlightened and thoughtful.

That was an adventure! Now it is time for another adventure: praying for these men. And I will have opportunity to talk more as they have become my new renters!

We are called to be partners with God in His great plan. This is much  more than having the Eagles football time asking you to come and play for them! It is joining the Creator of the universe who breathed the stars, hung the earth on nothing and will bring about the end of history. Nothing is bigger than that!

His word to us is: “But you are a chosen people, a royal priesthood, a holy nation, God’s special possession, that YOU MAY DECLARE the praises of him who called you out of darkness into his wonderful light.” 1 Peter 2:9

The Rescue

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Off to an Adventure

Many people crave adventure, and some pay a lot of money to have on, like going to Disneyland, or a trip to Antarctica, or even a trip to outer space.  But all these adventures are short-lived, for then you have to return to everyday life (yawn).

But there is one adventure that needs no money, no travel and never ends in this life. Jesus calls us to this: “If any man would come after me, let him deny himself, take up his cross daily and follow me.” If we follow Him, He then lays out a course of adventure for us every day: “Run with endurance the race marked out for you, looking to Jesus….” This better than spending a full day with….(fill in the bland with someone you admire).

Every morning as believers, we wake up, strap on our armor and enter the great conflict between good and evil—and we are always on the winning side! Our lives have purpose, a purpose stretching on into eternity. The things we do can last forever. And we will earn rewards as we enter the fray following King Jesus.

You never know what’s going to happen. The adventure could be as simple as things not working out as planned, giving you a chance to defeat Satan by offering the sacrifice of thanksgiving, thereby honoring God—a significant happening.

Or it may be a chance to have a God sighting, like yesterday when I went to the store and there was a fellow I’d been trying to get in touch with. Perfect timing showing God’s working in my life.

In my next post I will share more of the kind of adventures we can have with Jesus

Through the Dark

The road of life dips and turns, taking us through dark places as well as out  into the light. Our part is to continue on when things look bad and not to hang back or turn in fear. God has laid out the course for us, and Jesus is traveling with us (Hebrews 12:3 “run the race set out for you, looking to Jesus the author and finisher of your faith.”

When the path dips into the swamp, it is a great opportunity to live by faith, to honor God, to join with Him in a deeper way. It can be as simple a thing as losing your phone (as I did recently). In the scheme of things that’s a pretty small loss. But along with the phone, I lost all the info on it, including all my pictures. So I offered the sacrifice of thanksgiving and let go of those things. God says that by doing this we open the way for Him to show us the salvation of the Lord. And his help was not long in coming.
I was surprised to  find that when i got a used phone and started to set it up, that one step was downloading all my information from the Cloud!  I had no idea that was possible, but was very thankful for it.  Just a small thing, but it again showed how God helps us in our weakness.
Now I have another chance to offer thanks, as I just found out that my new sim card won’t come until the middle of next week! So I can’t make any phone calls. But at least with my wifi I can do texting, and the sim card will come in God’s time.
What a privilege to  join God in what He’s doing so he can fill us with all Joy and Peace in the midst of difficulty and disappointment (Romans 15:13). It’s simple: offer the sacrifice of thanksgiving, knowing the road will leave the dark area and come again into the light.
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Mercy Abounds

Praise be to you, Lord God, that you are a God of mercy—six times in Psalm 86 the author mentions your monumental mercy, two of them being, “You are good and ready to forgive and abundant in mercy to all who call upon you” (86:5). And, “You are a God full of compassion, gracious, slow to anger and abundant in mercy and truth” (86:15 NKJV).

In this list of qualities, we see the complexity of your perfect character, Lord, putting together aspects that, from our perspective, are mutually exclusive: your marvelous mercy and your tough truth.

The reality is that we deserve punishment, death and eternal separation from you, that you hate sin and will punish it, that this must and will happen—yet in your marvelous, unwarranted mercy you have opened a door in the hard, unyielding rock wall of Truth, a way through for us to flee from what we deserve to the forgiveness you have offered us.

And this door of mercy, grace and forgiveness was opened at great personal cost to you, a cost that is ongoing, as you allow us to grieve you in our rebellion, sin, indifference and selfishness. As J.I. Packer put it, you have willfully tied your happiness to your relationship with us! Therefore, you share with us the sweet and sour experience of waiting for the as-of-yet unfulfilled perfection of Heaven. We have the longing to be with you, yet need to remain here until your time for us is complete.

Help us now to be with you in loving you through obedience, in extending your mercy to others, that we may give you ongoing happiness.

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Comfort and Grace

I have thought a lot about suffering and why God allows it. Some answers are well know: maturing, developing endurance, earning rewards, being a witness to those around us.

But, this morning the Spirit showed me another reason. 2 Cor. 1:3,4 which says: “Praise be to…the God of all comfort…who comforts us in ALL our troubles, SO THAT we can comfort those in ANY TROUBLE with the comfort we ourselves receive from God.”

There it is! If we didn’t ever suffer we could never comfort those who do. Our suffering is the vehicle to equip us. We don’t have to suffer the same as everyone, but the comfort God gives us is adequate to pass on to others no matter their suffering.

But, there is a condition for being a “comfort receiver and a comfort giver.” We must trust God in the midst of our suffering, taking up His grace by offering the sacrifice of thanksgiving. We can do this because we know that He has a plan

As it says in Hebrews 12:15, “See to it that no one falls short of the grace of God and that no bitter root grows up to cause trouble and defile many.’ To fall short means you don’t take up God’s grace, but instead become angry and bitter, spreading this poison to all the  people around you.

But, if we remember this one purpose for suffering–to receive and pass on comfort–it will help us decide to take up God’s grace by offering the sacrifice of thanksgiving.

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Lost and Safe

The Lord has a way of testing me, to see if I really believe what I teach. In the last two days he’s given me two opportunities to apply what I know.

The first was giving me a chance to grow in humility by taking me down the road of humiliation. This was another opportunity to offer the sacrifice of thanksgiving. That was followed by the need to forgive, let go of what was painful, hold on to eternal truth and rise above. Enough said there.

The second chance came today when, while out shopping, I discovered that my iPhone was missing! I retraced my steps, tried my “find my phone” app on my computer, asked around, but to no avail. It is gone.

This is a big blow: I have lost all my phone numbers, all my pictures, all my texts and the ability to have others call me. And now I have to get another phone, a new sim card and start all over!

It is also another chance to offer the sacrifice of thanksgiving. But doing this I honor God and open a way for Him to show me the salvation of the Lord (whatever that will be!) He has a plan and it is a good one. He knows where that phone is and can return it if He wants (humanly speaking small chance of that). And if He doesn’t, it will be ok.

So, I choose to move ahead, giving thanks and trusting God. And as I trust Him He will fill me with all joy and peace. (Romans 15:13). Stay tuned for the outcome.

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