The ongoing story of our friend Adam

The ongoing story of our friend Adam

Leaving the city after our car was fixed, we drove up over the mountains again and down to the village where the car was first looked at.
The main road had a number of little grocery stores scattered along it. Since it was about lunchtime, we stopped and I went into one of the shops to buy some bread and cheese. And who was sitting there, but Adam, the bus driver!
 
“What a surprise to see you!” he said. “I am only home one day in a month and that is the day you stop here!”
 
“And I could have gone into any of the other little store and not seen you!” I replied.
 
Adam insisted that we come with him to his house. He took us up to the second story where he introduced us to his wife and several children. As it was the month of fasting, Ramadan. so he was not eating, but offered us tea. We declined out of respect for him and he was pleased.
 
He took me out on the balcony to show me his garden. There was a woman hanging out laundry on the balcony below.
 
“That’s my first wife,” said Adam. We knew that some men had more than one wife, but Adam was the first one we’d ever actually met.
 
“My brother married her first,” he explained, “but was killed in a car crash soon after. So it was my responsibility as his brother to marry his wife and have children in his name. I was 15, she was 19. We had three children. The first, a boy, we named after my brother.”
 
“I see,” I replied. “So this was an arranged marriage. And how did you come to marry your second wife?”
 
“I had a little shop where I sold and repaired watches and clocks,” he said, “When my eyes got bad from all the close work, I started doing long distance truck driving. On one trip to the South I met my second wife and fell in love with her. When I came home I talked with my first wife about it.”
 
“How did you do that?” I asked.
 
“Well, I asked her if she loved me. She said, ‘Yes.’ So I said to her, ‘Then give me permission to marry a second wife.’”
 
“ ‘No, I won’t,’ she replied.”
 
“ ‘OK,’ I said, ‘then I will have to divorce you because you don’t love me.’ ”
 
“After that she gave her permission for me to marry the second time. I had given her the children she wanted, now I have the wife I wanted.”
 
That began a four-year friendship with Adam. On his frequent bus trips through our city he would often stop in for a visit. He always brought us a nice gift—a whole honeycomb or a polished brass glass-enclosed candle holder or a large box of candy—and as he presented each to us, he always described it as “a worthless gift.” That in itself was a gift, giving us insight into the culture of the East, how the emphasis was on the relationship, not the gift.
 
Later we also made the long drive to visit Adam in his home, spending a delightful weekend with his second family.
During those years there were many chances to share the gospel with him and his family. He took a Bible and read in it, along with other literature. We saw this as part of the reason the Lord allowed our mishap with the car and the difficulty in getting it fixed: it meant meeting Adam and opened up the opportunity for him to hear the gospel. We never know what the Lord is orchestrating through the difficulties He brings into our lives, but can always know it is for good.
At one point we didn’t hear from him for a while, so we called Adam’s home and were shocked to learn that he was dead. He had been using his tractor to help a neighbor by pulling his wagon down the main road when a bus struck him from behind. After some days in the hospital in a coma, he had died.
We were thankful that the Lord had had mercy on him, giving him opportunity to find eternal life. We hope he took it, perhaps in those last hours of life while he was in a coma; we hope that we will see him in heaven.
Picture: Adam and his second wife and child. Note the irrigation ditch made from a log.
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